You’re Still Pushing. Still Showing Up. Still Getting It Done
But under the surface, something’s not right.
You’re quicker to snap.
Slower to recover.
Harder to be around, even for yourself.
Some days, you’re switched on. Focused. In control.
Other days, you’re fried. Over it. Emotionally gone.
Maybe you’ve thrown yourself into work.
Maybe you’re reaching for distractions you thought you’d outgrown.
Maybe you’re parenting, leading, performing… but everything feels heavier than it should.
You tell yourself it’s just a phase.
That you’ll fix it when things settle.
That you should be able to handle it.
But here’s the thing most high performers don’t want to admit:
You can still be functioning and be completely disconnected from yourself.
That was me.
From the outside, life looked solid.
A growing business.
A young family.
Doing all the “right” things.
But inside?
I was reactive, checked out, constantly on edge.
Snapping at the people I loved, then feeling shame about it.
Zoning out in moments that should’ve meant everything.
I’d try to fix it with more effort, better habits, another strategy, some mindset work…
But nothing really touched the deeper stuff.
The guilt.
The restlessness.
The pressure that never switched off.
Until it all started spilling out and it became impossible to ignore.
This is what no one teaches us:
Your system, the one that got you here, isn’t built for long-term pressure.
When it goes unchecked, it doesn’t just take your energy.
It steals your presence.
Your joy.
Your ability to feel calm in your own body.
And it starts to affect the people around you often well before you even notice.
That’s the real cost of pushing through.
You’ve probably already tried:
✔ Better routines
✔ Eating clean
✔ Journaling
✔ Supplements
✔ Ice baths
✔ A bit of therapy
✔ Coaching
And maybe it helped.
But then it crept back.
Because you were treating the symptoms
not the SYSTEM.
That’s exactly why I offer something I call a RESET Call.
It’s not a sales pitch.
It’s not a funnel trick.
It’s a proper, honest conversation one that most people don’t realise they need until it’s too late.
On this call, we’ll unpack what’s really driving the frustration, the reactivity, the emotional flatness…
The stuff beneath the habits, the routines, the coping.
I’ll help you make sense of what’s happening internally and if I think I can help, I’ll walk you through how the RESET process works.
But even if we never work together, you’ll walk away with more clarity than most people ever get until things start falling apart.
This isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about recalibrating the system that’s running everything in the background…
Your energy.
Your patterns.
Your relationships.
Your ability to feel calm, clear, and like yourself again.
Because if you leave it, if you keep pushing through like this
the cracks will become damage.
The silence will become disconnection.
And eventually, your body, your relationship, or your life will force you to slow down.
Don’t wait for that.
Book your RESET Call.
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Understanding how jacked up your nervous system is is the best place to start
Hey, I’m Fabien Pataud.
On paper, I had it all together.
I was running a successful business, earning well, married with three beautiful kids, living what most people would call a “good life.”
I’d ticked the boxes.
I was the provider. The leader. The guy people came to for advice, for solutions, for results.
But beneath the surface?
I was sedating just to get through the week.
Snapping at my wife over things that didn’t matter.
Losing patience with my kids.
Checking out. Scrolling. Overworking.
Avoiding.
The pressure I was under didn’t show up as weakness it showed up as anger, withdrawal, and a constant need to stay busy.
Even though I was helping others perform, lead, and succeed…
I couldn’t shake the feeling that I was disconnected from myself.
And in 2019, it all came to a head.
My health hit the wall.
My business began to slide.
My relationship felt fragile.
And the noise in my head was unbearable.
I’d tried (almost) everything from therapy to mindset work, NLP, supplements, ice baths, masterminds, books, podcasts…
They helped, but nothing held.
I realized I was trying to think my way out of a feeling problem — and no amount of “doing” would shift what was trapped in my system.
That’s when I discovered what no one tells you:
Most high performers aren’t stuck because they lack strategy.
They’re stuck because their nervous system is overloaded… and they’ve adapted to survival without realizing it.
I created a process to reset what was running the show underneath it all and when I came back to myself, everything changed.
Since then, I’ve worked with hundreds of clients across the globe, from high-performing sales professionals to overloaded parents and emotionally shut-down leaders who were on the edge of burnout.
We’ve hosted live RESET Experiences all over Australia from boardrooms to beachside retreats helping people regulate, reconnect, and realign.
And I keep hearing the same things:
“I’ve done all the courses and high-performance stuff, but nothing ever landed like this.”
“I didn’t realise how much I was holding in my body until it was gone.”
“You helped me get back to the part of me I didn’t even know I’d shut down.”
“I finally feel like I’m not trying to fix myself anymore, I just understand and come back to who I actually am.”
Because the truth is… most people wait until everything collapses.
Until the relationship ends.
Until the health scare hits.
Until they blow up at someone they love and can’t take it back.
But what if you didn’t wait for the damage?
What if you could shift the system now, before it cost you your edge, your family, or your future?
If any part of this feels close to home, this isn’t just content. It’s your call.
Not from me, from the part of you that’s been trying to break through for years.
And the RESET Call is your next step.
No fluff. No performance.
Just you and me, unpacking the tension that’s built up and mapping a new path forward.
I’ll show you what’s really been blocking the peace, presence, or power you’ve been chasing.
And if it makes sense to work together, I’ll walk you through how the RESET works.
But whether we work together or not, you’ll walk away with clarity most people don’t get until it’s too late.
You're a leader, a parent, or a high-achieving professional who feels like life is starting to cost you more than it should.
The success is there but so is the edge.
And you’re done pretending you’ve got it all handled.
Regulate
First, we help you slow the internal chaos.
We teach you how to downshift from that wired, reactive state and come back to clarity, calm, and control, without needing to escape.
Then we repair what’s been ignored, your relationship with yourself and the people you care about.
You’ll stop the quiet disconnection and start showing up fully again
Finally, we help you build a life that doesn’t cost you your nervous system.
Where your drive is matched by deep fulfillment and your outer world reflects your inner stability.
Every week we drop some bombs around, dealing with anxiety, overwhelm, stress and how you can smash through these
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